Struggling in your relationship?
- Constant frustrations that don’t get resolved?
- Arguments that keep recurring?
- A spouse or partner that is very angry or withdraws when upset?
- Not feeling heard or understood by your spouse or partner?
- Uncertain whether to stay in your relationship?
- Previous relationship counselling therapy that has not been helpful (and perhaps made things worse)?
Then realise…
- It is normal to struggle with relationships.
- Relationship difficulties are not your fault or your partner’s fault.
- You are probably in phase two of the relationship journey – the power struggle which follows the initial honeymoon phase.
- Good news – this is normal – All couples encounter the power struggle phase at some point where you may feel frustrated, angry, hurt, let down or disillusioned.
With the right help you can get through this phase and enjoy a connected, loving, joyful and intimate relationship with your spouse or partner.
If this all sounds familiar then get in touch to see how Imago Relationship Therapy can be helpful to get your relationship back on track.
You can have a better, joyful, connected & loving relationship or marriage.
Couples Therapy sessions
Intensive Marriage Counselling & Couples Therapy
Reconnect in a safe environment
Couples Retreat Therapy & Workshops
Getting the love you want
What’s different about my approach?
Well, most couples who end up in my office, have been to previous couple therapists which most often hasn’t helped…and in fact, sometimes made the situation worse.
My sessions are a safe space where there is no blaming, shaming or criticising! They get to understand why they have fallen out of connection and I give them the understanding, tools and skills to get back into connection.
It’s easy if you know how as well as practice the tools and skills.
I have helped many couples and will show you how you too can have a healthy joyful connected relationship.
Imago Relationship Therapy
Imago Relationship Therapy has positively influenced thousands of couples around the world, providing tools to be more effective in life and relationships.
More than one thousand therapists in about thirty countries are “changing the world one relationship at a time” by teaching the Imago Dialogical processes. You can be part of this transformational relationship revolution by contacting me to find out about this type of relationship counselling that’s available here in Manchester or online.
Connect with your partner like never before
Imago Couple Therapy helps you and your partner to connect like you have never experienced before. Our Couples Therapy here in Manchester (or online) uses Imago therapy to:
- Appreciate each other regularly
- Resolve frustrations without arguing, blaming or shaming
- Communicate well & easily
- Ask each other for your needs
- Find out what makes your partner feel loved and cared about
- Increase caring behaviours
- Increase fun
- Gain a deeper understanding of each other
- Deeper compassion for each other & yourself
- Eliminate negativity from your relationship ‘space’
- Be an example to your children of a healthy happy couple relationship
The Imago Dialogue process is a safe way of communicating thoughts and feelings with each other. It forms the basis of the therapy sessions.
Strengthen your relationship
My relationship counselling is facilitated with the dialogue process as the main tool through which couples are taught to communicate compassionately. This empowers you to build and strengthen your relationship. Over a short time, the therapist is needed less and less.
The couple learns to respect the differences between them and discover their partner’s (& their own) needs, desires, vulnerabilities, wounds, strengths and resources. They become more aware and compassionate towards each other, finding ways to stay connected with each other.
Types of couples therapy we offer
There are three ways to work on your relationship:
- Weekly or fortnightly couple therapy sessions at either of my consulting rooms in Prestwich or Whitefield (or Online)
- I also offer Private Intensive Retreat sessions for couples who would like to spend anywhere from half a day up to two full days working with me in my consulting rooms (or online).
- The international two-day couple educational workshops (these are known as the Getting The Love You Want Couple Workshops which are run all over the world). (Learn more here: couple educational workshops )
My partner and I have had several Imago sessions with Gary Janit as our counsellor. Gary creates an open and comfortable ethos for our couple dialogue. We felt safe and secure in his presence, he comes over as gentle and non-judgemental.
Sue and John
My wife and I had just a few therapy sessions with Gary and since then our marriage has been significantly improved. I now put much more thought into my relationship and much more aware of my wife’s needs.
Neil H
My husband and I benefitted hugely from Gary’s expertise in couples therapy. We explored new ways of communications with one another and understanding each other’s point of view.
We have been extremely lucky to have found such a wonderful therapist and continue to recommend him to friends and family who need some help and guidance in this area.
Max & Tanya
My partner and I started this type of therapy 6 months ago. We had found ourselves stuck in a power struggle and our relationship was failing. We have and are continuing to learn and use the fundamentals of mirroring, validating and then empathising. It has revolutionised the way we interact and deal with each other.
Janet & Andy
We enjoyed working with Gary as our presenter in the Imago workshop recently. He has a soft and gentle approach but is also very able to teach what we need to learn. He has so much wisdom and experience and we both learnt a great deal.
Mr & Mrs P
Thank you for the sessions. Before we came we were on the verge of separating and throwing our marriage away. We have learnt to appreciate each other differences and how to communicate frustration in a healthy happy way. I could not be happier in my marriage now.
Yisrael
Before we came to see Gary I’d just had a baby and my hormones were all over the place. I felt my marriage was breaking. Gary helped me learn to communicate well and how to love each other. He also taught me how to be patient with my husband. I now feel myself and my husband have changed for the better and enjoy our time together.