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As January comes to an end, many of us start to realise that those ambitious New Year’s resolutions to lose weight or stick to a strict diet may already feel impossible to maintain. If this resonates with you, then realise that you’re not alone.

Much of what we’re told about weight loss simply doesn’t work—and often sets us up for failure.

Here, we’ll share the top 10 weight loss myths that might be holding you back and give practical, mindset-focused solutions to help you prioritise health over harsh, restrictive dieting.

Most common weight loss myths

Myth 1: Diets Are the Best Way to Lose Weight

The Reality: Diets often promise quick results, but they rarely work long-term. Many people regain the weight (and more) once the diet ends. Instead of focusing on diets, shift your attention to building healthy, sustainable habits. Think about nourishing your body with balanced meals rather than depriving yourself.

Myth 2: Weight Loss Is Just About Willpower

The Reality: Weight loss isn’t about willpower; it’s about understanding the thoughts and habits driving your behaviours. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) can help you identify unhelpful thought patterns and replace them with healthier, more supportive beliefs and actions.

Myth 3: You Need to Set Big, Specific Weight Loss Goals

The Reality: While having goals can be motivating, rigid, weight-focused goals often lead to frustration and burnout. Instead, try setting intentions that focus on your actions and values, such as “I intend to move my body daily” or “I intend to eat more vegetables.” Intentions feel more flexible and empowering than strict rigid goals.

Myth 4: Exercise Alone Will Lead to Weight Loss

The Reality: Exercise is fantastic for your overall health, but on its own, it’s not the magic key to weight loss. A holistic approach that also includes balanced eating, stress management, and good sleep habits is far more effective in the long run.

Myth 5: You Need to Cut Out All ‘Bad’ Foods

The Reality: Labelling foods as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ creates an unhealthy relationship with eating. Restricting certain foods often leads to cravings and overeating. Instead, aim for balance. You can enjoy your favourite treats in moderation while focusing on overall healthy choices.

Myth 6: Losing Weight Is the Same as Being Healthy

The Reality: Health is so much more than a number on the scale. Focusing solely on weight loss can overshadow other important aspects of health, such as energy levels, emotional wellbeing, and overall fitness. A health-first mindset encourages positive changes without the pressure of chasing a specific weight.

Myth 7: You Need to Be Perfect to See Results

The Reality: Nobody eats perfectly all the time, and aiming for perfection only sets you up for guilt and frustration. Progress, not perfection, is the key to lasting change. Celebrate small wins, like adding an extra portion of vegetables to your plate or taking a short walk. Learn to be kind to yourself when there is a struggle and get back on track as soon as possible after a setback. 

Myth 8: Carbs Are the Enemy

The Reality: Carbohydrates have unfairly been demonised, but they’re a vital source of energy for your body. Whole, unprocessed carbs like oats, brown rice, and fruits are nutritious and satisfying. It’s all about balance and portion control.

Myth 9: Fast Results Are the Best Results

The Reality: Quick fixes rarely lead to sustainable outcomes. Lasting weight management is a journey, not a sprint. Shifting your mindset to focus on gradual, consistent changes can help you build habits that last a lifetime.

Myth 10: If You Failed Before, You’ll Fail Again

The Reality: Past attempts at weight loss do not determine your future success. Every setback is an opportunity to learn what works for you. Adopting a compassionate, growth-focused mindset can help you move forward with confidence.

The Key to Success: Mindset Over Diets

If you’re feeling frustrated or stuck, know that the solution isn’t another restrictive diet or a harsh exercise routine. It’s about addressing the root causes of your struggles with a focus on mindset, habits, and sustainable health.

By shifting your perspective to prioritise health rather than weight loss and setting intentions instead of rigid goals, you’ll build a foundation for lasting success. Remember, the journey to health is personal, and small, consistent changes can lead to big transformations.

Looking for Support in Your Journey?
If you’re ready to explore a new approach to weight management that focuses on mindset and health, I invite you to check out how Cognitive Behavioural Therapy can help.

Here’s to a healthier, more empowered you in 2025!

Warm regards,

Gary

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