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Finding Balance and Harmony: A Journey Towards Uplifting Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviours

As we continue to celebrate the launch of our redesigned website at CBT Therapy Manchester, I am reminded of the importance of balance and harmony in our lives. Our new website design is not just about a particular look; it's about creating a space that feels balanced, welcoming, and harmonious—a reflection of the principles we…

Embracing New Beginnings: A Fresh Look at Our Journey

As a therapist, I have the privilege of witnessing countless stories of transformation and growth. Each individual's journey is unique, yet one common theme we all share is the capacity for renewal and change. Today, I am thrilled to announce a significant change for our community: the launch of our newly redesigned website at CBT…

How to Talk so you will be Heard

In the last 1-minute Relationship Snippet, we mentioned that listening is an art and can benefit your relationship connection immensely. Equally as important as good listening is how you speak and what you say. The following are some suggestions when talking… Try sharing without any shaming blaming or criticising. Try sharing using ‘I’ language rather than ‘you’ e.g. ‘I feel close…

Doom & Gloom FM to Happiness FM

Today, just like in the old days, if you were listening to the radio and did not like the music, commentary or news…what would you do? You would change channels from ‘Doom & Gloom FM’ to a more pleasant station such as Classic FM, Gratitude FM, Positivity FM, Happiness FM etc…you get the idea! Just like…

Hungry, Thirsty or Craving – Part 1

For many years, I used to mistakenly think I was hungry when actually I was thirsty. Thirst, hunger and cravings can be easily confused! This 1-minute snippet will focus briefly on thirst…the next two snippets will highlight hunger and cravings. The next time you are feeling hungry, check if you are actually thirsty…your body often…

How You See Yourself Is Extremely Important!

Change is hard. You’ve probably noticed that! We all want to become healthier people but even if we get really inspired and start doing things better, it’s tough to actually stick to new behaviours. James Clear in his famous book, ‘Atomic Habits’ says that the following can make change easier: Believe in a new healthy identity and then prove…

Do You Worry? Try This!

We have mentioned before in these 1-minute emotional well-being snippets that your mind is not always your friend! For example, many of us may think in the following ways: ‘what-if’ type worries, worst-case scenario thoughts, self-critical thoughts, ruminating & dwelling on the past etc. This is what most minds do which can lead to feeling irritable and tense, often even…

The Wizard of Oz – Lessons for Life

Remember the story of ‘The Wizard of Oz’… After a tornado hurls through Kansas, Dorothy and her dog, Toto, are swept away from their home to the colourful and vibrant Land of Oz. To find their way back home, they must embark on a journey to the Emerald City, where the Wizard of Oz lives. On…

How do you respond to rain? The Power of Acceptance

It rains a lot in Manchester, where I live. There are two choices about how to respond and react when it is raining: Option 1 would be the following thoughts: “I don’t like rain. I wish it was not raining and then my day would be better! My day is now ruined. It is so horrible this long…

The Magic Of Gratitude

A book came out a few years ago, called ‘The Magic’ and it was all about Gratitude… …specifically, how Gratitude can have a magical effect on one’s life! If there is an opposite of gratitude, it might be complaining and negativity which as we all know, makes us feel worse. Gratitude is an essential mindset for general…

What do you think?

What do you think of my new logo? Designed by myself, my wife and my daughters. It captures everything that I am passionate about…Whole-Person, Balanced, Holistic Living. When balance is achieved (as much as possible) in all four areas (puzzle pieces), then it allows our innate well-being to rise to the surface. Whole-Person Well-Being: This is the overall sense of…

The Awesome Power of Affirmations

Guess what…we use affirmations all the time… We are constantly thinking and telling ourselves a story… Much of our thinking is automatic and unfortunately quite negative…worries, planning, rumination, dwelling and self-critical thinking. Given that thoughts are powerful, why not take a little time to focus on how you would like life to be. Hence…Affirmations. Daily affirmations…