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We all go off track…

I heard the following this week…” I worked so hard and was perfect on my eating plan and the scale is still up! This just isn’t worth it.”

This is normal and part of every journey.

A more helpful response is:

Even if I’ve adhered to my eating and exercise program, the scale won’t go down every week, let alone every day. Just keep doing what I’m doing- moving in the right direction towards good healthy choices as much as possible”.

Especially regarding health, well-being and maintaining a healthy weight…it is not about staying on track but rather about CONSTANTLY getting yourself back on track.

HOW do you keep getting back on track?

 

  • By DOING THE NEXT RIGHT THING as soon as possible
  • Being Kind to Yourself & forgiving of your mistake or error
  • Try not to think in All-or-Nothing ways eg. I have messed up today by this mistake, so I might as well eat badly for the rest of today and start again tomorrow!
  • Look at the difficulty as an opportunity for growth and learning…Ask yourself the following:
  • 1. What was the situation? What happened?
  • 2. What unhelpful sabotaging thoughts did I have?
  • 3. What can I do and say differently the next time?
  • Make response cards so you can remind yourself next time.

Have a wonderful week and give yourself credit every time you notice you have gone off track and a pat on the back every time you get yourself back on track!

Gary Janit

I offer confidential individual psychotherapy & CBT as well as Imago Relationship Therapy in Manchester.
I am registered and accredited with the following professional organisations, abiding by their ethical codes:
BABCP (British Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Psychotherapies), UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy), HCPC (Health & Care Professions Council) as well being a graduate member of the BPS (British Psychological Society).

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