Getting The Love You Want

Getting The Love You Want
The Transformational Couples Workshop

Are you getting the love you want? Are you ready to transform your relationship? And rediscover connection & joy in your relationship?

Are you feeling stuck in your relationship?
Arguing over the same frustrations that seem never to get resolved?
Longing for more connection, intimacy, and understanding with your partner?
More blame, shame, criticism and withdrawing?
A spouse or partner that is very angry or withdraws when upset?
Not feeling heard or understood by your spouse or partner?
Uncertain whether to remain in your relationship?
Previous relationship therapy that has not been helpful (and perhaps made things worse)?

If so, you’re not alone! You’re likely stuck in the ‘power struggle phase’ which is part of the relationship journey.

The good news!

If so, you and your partner will benefit from attending the ‘Getting The Love You Want’ couples workshop. This transformative program is designed to help couples rediscover their love and create a deeper, more fulfilling relationship.

There is a pathway out of the painful power struggle phase back towards a more connected joyful loving relationship that you most likely once enjoyed previously. Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been together for years, whatever the condition of your relationship, the ‘Getting The Love You Want’ couples workshop is for you. What you will get:

A peaceful way to work through frustrations – without shaming, blaming or criticising
Enhanced appreciation of each other – and sharing this frequently
Increased joy and fun.
Deeper compassion for your partner
An understanding of your partners triggers, hurts and pain points – as well as how to manage these
Increased passion and intimacy
And much much more

Hear what clients have said about Gary’s Couples Therapy

We enjoyed working with Gary as our presenter in the Imago workshop recently. He has a soft and gentle approach but is also very able to teach what we need to learn. Gary didn’t shy away from our questions and he gave each one of us respect and built our confidence by validating us. He has so much wisdom and experience and we both learnt a great deal.

My husband and I benefitted hugely from Gary’s expertise in couples therapy. We explored new ways of communications with one another and understanding each other’s point of view. We have been extremely lucky to have found such a wonderful therapist and continue to recommend him to friends and family who need some help and guidance in this area.

Thank you for you sessions. Before we came we were on the verge of separating and throwing our marriage away. We have learnt to appreciate each other differences and how to communicate frustration in a healthy happy way. I could not be happier in my marriage now.

IMAGO therapy- my partner and I started this type of therapy 6 months ago. We had found ourselves stuck in a power struggle and our relationship was failing. We have and are continuing to learn and use the fundamentals of mirroring, validating and then empathising. It has revolutionised the way we interact and deal with each other.

My partner and I have had several Imago sessions with Gary Janit as our counsellor. Gary creates an open and comfortable ethos for our couple dialogue. We felt safe and secure in his presence, he comes over as gentle and non-judgemental.

What happens in the workshop?

During the workshop, you’ll dive into deep self-reflection as you uncover your own patterns of behaviour and explore how they impact your relationship dynamics. You’ll learn powerful communication techniques that foster empathy, understanding, and effective conflict resolution. And you’ll do so in a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your relationship dynamics honestly and openly.

Through various exercises and activities, you’ll learn how to communicate more effectively with your partner. The workshop provides tools for resolving conflicts and deepening emotional intimacy.

You’ll discover ways to meet each other’s needs more fully and create a stronger bond as a couple. This heightened awareness allows for greater compassion towards one another’s vulnerabilities while fostering emotional intimacy like never before.

An opportunity for Growth, Healing and Transformation

This isn’t just some quick fix or band-aid solution. It’s an opportunity for growth, healing, and transformation. The workshop challenges you to confront difficult emotions head-on but also offers guidance on how to navigate them together.

You will take away from the workshop some highly connecting exercises. Just a few of these include Appreciations, Gratitude, Caring behaviours and Fun. These will immediately begin making a difference to your relationship.

Throughout the course, you and your partner will be guided by a skilled facilitator who has been trained in Imago Relationship Therapy.

Hear what clients have said about the 'Getting The Love You Want' Workshop

I felt very safe and the exercises really helped me to join the dots in understanding myself in a very effective way.

I learned a tremendous amount about myself and about our relationship. The workshop was comfortable, well-paced and provided some great resources to work with. We have been extremely lucky to have found such a wonderful therapist and continue to recommend him to friends and family who need some help and guidance in this area.

The workshop helped us greatly in gaining a deeper understanding about relationships. The Imago tools are very powerful and have given us a real boost. Thank you Gary for your skillful and warm approach, it was great!

Getting The love You Want – how?

The two-day workshop gives couples a fast-track opportunity to learn new tools and skills. These will help you work through the frustrations and pain that might be part of your current relationship. The weekend has moments of fun, discovery, learning, sharing and understanding.

The next workshop is Sunday 12^th and Monday 13^th May. There are limited places available. Don’t miss out – book now.

From the beginning you will experience a space that is free of negativity. In this way, you can both feel safe to connect in a new way. A way that will allow the couple to bring as much pleasure into your relationship as possible. The ‘Getting The Love You Want’ couples workshop will also offer you new and improved ways to manage the frustrations and hurt in your relationship.

This workshop is one of the best investments you can make in your relationship.

“By the end of the workshop, most couples leave feeling far more positive about their relationship, and the workshop closes with finding ways to make sure your life is full of caring and romance”. (Imago International).

Most couples find they gain so much more from the workshops than many months of weekly couple therapy.12

What if we’re shy or want privacy?

The ‘Getting The Love You Want’ Workshop is an educational experience and not a therapy group. Any personal work done with your spouse or partner is done in private and is practiced between the two of you.

Couples can share and participate as much or as little as they would like. Most couples feel reluctant to attend but soon find that they are not alone in their struggle and are reassured that other couples may be experiencing a similar journey. This makes couples feel comfortable. But feel free to sit back if you prefer. Most couples immediately realise that their experiences are quite normal. It can be comforting to discover that much of our relationship struggles are shared!

As mentioned, any couple work is done privately between the couple apart from other couples (or in a separate room).

To ensure that couples feel safe, we all sign a confidentiality agreement at the start of the workshop agreeing to keep any names and personal details confidential.

Hello! I’m Gary Janit

I am a relationship therapist and coach. My goal is to enhance the quality of your relationship.

Whether you are dealing with a crisis in your relationship or are wanting a better connection then be in touch to discuss what will be of most benefit.

Leon (Manchester)

Was glad to be on the workshop and found it very helpful. I especially enjoyed being introduced to the dialogue exercises in your workshop which I’ve found to be a very powerful and effective means of communication.

More about the Workshop

The next workshop is Sunday 12^th and Monday 13^th May. The workshops are a mix of lectures, practical demonstrations, written exercises, video clips as well as individual practice with your partner (done privately with your partner)

Workshop days are normally a consecutive Sunday & Monday or two consecutive Sundays
Times for the workshops are 10am til 5pm on both days with an hour and a quarter for lunch

I facilitate these couple workshops approximately four times a year but spaces are limited to make sure the couples feel comfortable. Don’t miss you chance. Book now! The ‘Getting The Love You Want’ Workshops are delivered internationally and have been helping couples for decades.

What happens next?

An email will be sent out two weeks before the workshop with all the relevant information including exact details of the venue (North Manchester – either Prestwich or Whitefield)

There are between three and six couples at the couple workshops.

Each partner receives a very comprehensive workshop manual filled with helpful ideas as well as all the information and tools covered on the workshop. This manual alone has improved many relationships as its filled with relationship advice and tools for a more connected joyful relationship.

Value for money!

If the couple are unable to afford to pay in one payment, then they can pay half to register and the other half the next month (please contact me in this regard).

However, the cost of the workshop is a small price to pay for a closer more connected and joyful relationship! It works out at about £135 per partner per day which is great value for money compared to the costs of regular ongoing couple therapy (and you gain so much more giving your relationship a boost in a short amount of time)

If you have any other questions, please feel free to contact me on 07931721637 or gary@cbttherapymanchester.co.uk