“Couples in conscious relationships recognise that the committed partnership is a remarkable structure for healing and growth. As partners excavate the past and learn about one another – their unmet needs and lifelong desires, vulnerabilities, wounds, strengths and resources – they can begin to work cooperatively to bring their unconscious directives into consciousness” (Imago International … Read More
Pain & Discomfort are an opportunity for growth
In relationships we may look at conflict, difference and pain as a ‘bad thing’ but actually frustrations and conflict can be an opportunity for growth…see the following quote below. When couples can see frustrations as an opportunity for growth, the relationship takes a different journey… Watch this YouTube video of Abraham Twerski talking about how … Read More
A must watch – The Power of Connection
This will change the way you view life and the way you view your relationships. Hedy Schleifer is a master Imago couple therapist who beautifully talks about the invisible ‘sacred space’ that exists between couples. If only we could all live according these ideas…honouring each other, respecting difference and living with an open heart.
Sharing Appreciations
The idea is simple but powerful – take a moment to think of something you appreciate about someone in your life – a partner, spouse, friend, child, teacher, headmaster etc. This appreciation could be something that drew you to that person originally or perhaps it is something you’ve come to know, love, admire or appreciate … Read More
Putting your appreciations into words
Appreciations This quote sums it up! Appreciations can really make a huge difference to others, relationships and oneself. Its the action of verbalising the appreciation that is necessary. Relationship counselling in Manchester can significantly improve your relationship. Try It! Go on…share something your appreciate about your friend, partner, spouse, neighbour, family member etc. Remember what … Read More
Its Not about The Nail – A lesson in listening!
Good communication ! A real classic short humorous video that reminds us about the value of listening and good communication. We very quickly go into problem solving mode but this short funny video reminds us about how much more valuable listening can be to others rather than problem solving. Good communication skills can be learnt. … Read More
Power of Appreciations
Relationship Reminders – Power of Appreciations “Appreciation can make a day, even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary”. Margaret Cousins Negativity is toxic for any relationship. In order for your partner and your relationship to grow and thrive, aim to reduce negativity (shaming, blaming, criticism, put … Read More
Happy Birthday, Harville!
Someone once said, “A good teacher can inspire hope, ignite the imagination, and instill a love of learning.” Harville Hendrix, founder of Imago Relationship Therapy, is more than a good teacher. He is passionate, devoted, and above all, committed to the cause. With all that he has done for Imago Relationship International, we would like … Read More